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The Wonders of a Solo Date

I have always HATED being alone. For the first two and a half years of my life I screamed in the car because I had to sit in the back seat by myself (I think my mother nearly killed me haha). However, being alone with yourself and your thoughts has great mental benefits as an adult especially towards “finding yourself”. As our 20s are supposed to be our time to “find ourselves”, I’ve been working hard in my mid-twenties to do just that.

Part of my strategy to do this has been to take myself out on dates. I’m not going to say that I’m super good at this concept but I’ve enjoyed it so far. Going out with just myself gives me time to think about what really makes me happy since I am a huge people-pleaser. It also gives me time to think about my future and what I want my life to look like and how I think I can make that happen on a personal and professional level. If I were the journaling-type this is probably a time where I would journal too. All of this happens while I am at dinner when you would in theory being getting to know the person across the table from you. However, I also make sure that I plan a fun activity too. I usually lean towards going to movies that I can’t convince my friends or boyfriend to go to with me but I have also done shopping or laying on the beach with a book.

Another thing that I always make sure to do is to dress up or at least look put together. My thought process on this is two-fold: A) I enjoy getting dressed up and it makes me happy and B) you’d dress up for a normal date for a random person so why wouldn’t you do the same for yourself?!

I’ve found that this has been super helpful in my “finding myself” stage of life but I’d love to hear any suggestions you gals may have!

Jammies for lyfe

I’m not going to say that I don’t love a large t-shirt and boy shorts to sleep in, because I 100% do. However, there’s something that makes you feel like you have your life together when you wake up in a matching set of pajamas. However, I’ve found that such sets can be kind of expensive.

I’ve linked everything in this picture below including this super cute mug to encourage hustling from ROX Jewelry Shop! Use code “kims15” for 15% off anything from their website! They have tons of other cute jewelry, apparel, and trinkets!

Jammies: Nordstrom

Mug: ROX Jewelry Shop

Quilt: Target

Nordstrom – $55

SheIn – $15

Target – $20

Happy Shopping and a happy week, lovelies!